21. Looks and Physical Appearance:
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Will this be modest? Not attracting the wrong persons or crowd? Ensuring to look good always but modestly? Always portraying a positive personality? Getting ready for ethical opportunities that knock? Minimising and avoiding temptations of infidelity?
22. Resonance
How do you resonate with others?
Does your personality resonate with your spouse? Is there resonance with your in-laws?Could you effectively manage relationship cracks? Will you be prepared to make regular extended family visits? Will you keep good relationships with potential in-laws? Will you give them occasional or periodic gifts? Will there be resonance of both families? Do you have shared or common values? Is there resonance with spousal associates? Are your characters in resonance? Below are some related thoughts to ponder:
- Family values
- Honesty
- Integrity
- Investments
- Looks
- Wealth creation
- Children
- Common vision
- Basic duties
- Extended family relations
- Old age
- Priorities
- Purchases
- Relations with friends and acquaintances
- Schools for children
- Social life
- Spirituality
- Avoidance of extravagance
- Common financial pots
- Financial planning
Are you on the same page on most of these issues?
23. Marital Personalities
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24. Compatible personalities
- Do you have complementary personalities?
- Complementary strengths?
- Are you both introvert or extrovert?
- Do you have mutual respect?
- Are you a thinker or an executor?
- Talker or listener?
25. Compatible Cultures
Are your cultural leanings compatible?
- Consider the children
- Consider old age
- Consider pros and cons
- Consider short and long term possibilities
- Consider workability
- Cheating and infidelity
- The security and longevity of the union
26. Medical Compatibility
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Are you medically compatible? Consider:
- Mental health issues?
- Physical health issues?
- Psychological health issues?
- Avoidance of excesses?
- Cleanliness and personal hygiene?
- Blood groups
27. Compatible Values
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Consider:
- Contentment?
- Good character?
- Good manners?
- Hard work?
- Honesty?
- Legacy?
- Selflessness?
- Cleanliness?
- Personal hygiene?
28. Make up? Natural looks?
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- Minimal make up?
- Natural looks?
- Oral hygiene?
- Well kept?
- Academic?
- Added value?
- Brainstorming?
29. Intellectual compatibility
- Do you have Intellectual discussions?
- Are both of you Professionals?
- Do both of you have research skills?
- Are you resourceful?
- Are you result oriented?
30. Compatible Life Views
Here are some thoughts for consideration:
- Same sources of knowledge
- See life from common lenses
- Shared best practice
- Shared life experiences
- Compatible religions?
- Domesticated?
- Are both, or individual parties, domesticated?
- Do you rely on domestic staff?
- Are the staff trustworthy?
- Do you, as the husband, pass domestic chores to the wife?
- Do you help with domestic chores?
- Do you trivialise domestic chores?
- Do you train and encourage children to partake in domestic chores?
- Do you abuse your domestic staff?
- Are your domestic staff, for the short or long term?
- Are your domestic staff well remunerated?
- Do you get domestic staff due to laziness or necessity?
Thank you very much for your time.
This is Jack Lookman signing off. Ire o (I wish you blessings)
Ire kabiti (I wish you loads of blessings).
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